"Stock supplies, be patient, offer support" — that's the entire app. Understanding her deserves more than a fridge magnet.
Three suggestions on a three-day timer isn't understanding her — it's a countdown with a script attached.
Mayday keeps things extremely simple: enter a few dates, and three days before her predicted period you get one of three canned lines — "Stock supplies," "Be patient," "Offer support." That's the entire app, every cycle, whether or not it actually fits what's going on with her. Know Her covers what those three lines can't: her current phase, mood, and energy every single day, not just a countdown before her period — and predictions self-calibrate as you confirm more cycles instead of repeating the same three suggestions forever.
One is a heads-up. The other is a daily picture.
The same three lines, every cycle, whether they fit or not. That's not support — that's a script.
Something to check every day, not just before her period — and it improves the longer you use it.
Know Her vs Mayday, side by side.
| Know Her | Mayday | |
|---|---|---|
| Built for male partners | ✓ Purpose-built | ✓ Purpose-built |
| She needs no app or account | ✓ Yes | ✓ Yes |
| You need an account to log in | ✓ No | ✓ No — "no sign-up required" per its listing |
| Daily mood and energy dashboard | ✓ Yes, every day | ✗ Only a 3-day pre-period alert |
| Predictions self-calibrate | ✓ Yes — learns her cycle | ✗ No sign of self-calibration |
| 100% offline | ✓ Yes | ✓ Yes, per its listing |
| Home screen widget | ✓ Yes | ✗ Not listed |
| Multiple languages | ✓ 6 languages | ✗ English only |
| Private notes on the calendar | ✓ Yes — offline, only yours | ✗ No |
| Your price | $2.99/mo — 14-day free trial | Free, Gold at $7/mo or $42/yr |
What the app was built to solve changes everything about how it works.
What it actually costs you.
Then $19.99/year (or $2.99/month). Daily dashboard, self-calibration, widget, Face ID lock, private notes.
Free for the basics; its own Gold tier costs more per year than Know Her's full subscription.
Know Her costs less than Mayday's own Gold tier — and gives you a daily dashboard, not just a warning.
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